You see I've read many books on the topic. My heart melts for these children. The empathy I have is never ending. However was this impacting my teaching and interactions on a daily basis? Raw honesty says I was probably not conscious of it every day. That's not good enough because, quite frankly, these kids need me to be every day!
Some things we need to do for all students but especially our most needy:
1. Form strong relationships built on respect.
- More rapport=more motivation for learning
- Respect is not only verbal but non-verbal. Think about your body language and facial expressions.
- Provide structure, consistency, and support
2. Teach the hidden rules of school.
- Personal space, privacy, level of voice, apologies, courtesies, promises
- Not knowing the hidden rules of school can make school very difficult for a child
- Don't assume students know them. They may not be taught or modeled at home. It's up to us!
3. Teach students how to plan.
- Use/model planning behaviors (color coding, checklists, written steps)
- If you don't plan you can't predict what will happen. It's impossible to see the cause-effect if you can't predict.
4. Think about the voice used when speaking to students.
- Non-judgmental, factual, positive
- Look at the student as a participant in the conversation
5. Teach using models
- pictures, sketching, two-dimensional model
- stories, analogies, metaphors
6. Get to know the family resources and dynamics.
- What truly is going on at home? Addiction? Mental illness? Violence? Neglect? Can we help? If we can't help out of school what can we do in school for the child?
- Be open and welcoming to the families. Bend over backwards to get them involved. Make a positive contact right away (in person, by phone, note) to build rapport. Make school a positive experience for them. It probably was not when they were growing up.
A sampling or resources for meeting the needs of our children in poverty:
Eric Jensen has several books out there with a heavy emphasis on brain research.
Eric Jensen Website
Ruby Payne Website
I know exactly what you're talking about with this population. Last year was my first year of teaching and I taught in a school that was 95% free and reduced lunch. It was a real wake up call. One thing I learned is to try to get the parents involved. Some of them want to be involved, they just don't know how to be. I also had to do a lot of explaining that the rules in school were different than the rules at home.
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